Growth requires some degree of risk tolerance. The more self-confident, and the higher our self-esteem, the more calculated and informed risks we’re willing to take. To build self-confidence and self-esteem, we must take risks and be willing to learn from failures and missteps. This virtuous cycle works best when we surround ourselves with positive challengers—people who will simultaneously support and challenge you in an environment of psychological safety.

How we feel about risk and how we respond to risky situations is not applicable solely to the financial investments we make. Our feelings toward risk influence what jobs we pursue, the relationships we engage in, the products we buy, and the recreational activities we take part in. Your personal relationship with risk touches and helps shape nearly every aspect of your life.