Military Honors - A Thank You
On Monday morning of this week, my brother-in-law and his sisters laid their father to rest in a brief but touching ceremony. Ray Flower led a colorful, productive, and impactful life. He was a boater, car-enthusiast, and salesperson extraordinaire for the G. Heileman Brewing Company.
Ray was also a sailor in the United States Navy and served aboard the destroyer-class USS Moale during the Korean War. At his memorial service, the family displayed a wonderful commendation Ray received for circumnavigating the globe on the Moale—so cool.
After the service, family and friends traveled to the cemetery for Ray’s burial—led by the Roy L. Vingers American Legion Post 52 of La Crosse and the United States Navy Funeral Honor Guard. During the short burial service, Ray received a 21 gun salute along with a deeply moving presentation of the American Flag to the surviving family members.
I had seen these presentations before, most notably at my uncle Eric’s funeral where, as his nephew, I was presented with a spent shell casing from the 21 gun salute he received. I keep that memento close at hand in my home office.
What was different this time is how struck I was by the meaningfulness of the military honors ceremony. Ray served his country dutifully in the 1950s. Seventy years later, a corps of individuals—most of whom are retired and likely did not know Ray personally—dedicated their morning to seeing Ray off with a fitting salute. Wow.
So today’s muse is dedicated to two things. First, is the life of Raymond Flower. Cheers to you, Ray. You were a role model to many and a difference maker during your career.
Second is a huge thank you to military veterans who spend a small, but meaningful portion of their time ensuring that their brothers and sisters in arms receive the send-off they deserve. One of those individuals is our dear friend Steve Knutson, who I learned after-the-fact was in the line providing the 21 gun salute. Thanks to all the Steve Knutson’s out there who make the time to provide this valuable service.
Next time you drive by a VFW and wonder what goes on inside—now you know. Respect.
